you are worthy

Have you ever felt scared to speak up because someone might leave you?

Fuck me too, the fear is very real, but today I decided to ask for what I needed…I know right?! It was scary because I didn’t know if I was even allowed to do it, who does that?! Just don’t say anything Delain its better if you just figure it out, deal with it and process it without saying anything, you will come across as needy, high maintenance and who the hell wants to be with someone that is so self conscious?!

The right dam person that’s who!!

We have been fed lies, to stay quiet and small. To not speak up, but just push through and make it work. I have done this literally my entire life, and i’m choosing to change it. Because I am the only one who can, and you are the only one who can change your life, your boundaries and what you tolerate.

And today I take a stand! A stand against the fear of abandonment, judgment and shame. I choose Love, Honesty and Radically Open Connection. This time around I am choosing a new way of being in relationship and asking for what I need with Love. Because I want to be steeped in intimacy, romance my life and share that with a level of space holding that creates such a connection.

With him and myself.

It is so important to stay in our work. To continuously Heal, Process and Improve. We cannot rely on anyone to do this for us, we must do it ourselves, and be willing to be radically responsibility for our point of attraction and current circumstances.

Feeling good is our number one job if we want change in our lives and attract more abundance, Love and Joyfulness into our lives.

Not easy…but necessary. And we can’t do that by staying quiet and not letting those we love know what we need.

You Are Worthy! Start showing yourself why!

Delain